The Belgian Teen Who Went to Fight in Syria: The Brian De Mulder Story

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Brian De Mulder, then 19, at Ingrid De Mulder's home in Luxembourg, the southern-most province in Belgium. He spent four days there during Ramadan before fleeing back to Antwerp. About six months later, he would cross into Syria.
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Brian De Mulder, then 19, at Ingrid De Mulder's home in Luxembourg, the southern-most province in Belgium. He spent four days there during Ramadan before fleeing back to Antwerp. About six months later, he would cross into Syria.

Like many boys in Antwerp, Brian De Mulder dreamed of being a professional footballer. His favorite team was continental powerhouse FC Barcelona and he sought to emulate its Argentine superstar Leo Messi, proudly wearing “10″ on the back of his jersey. He had started playing the game at the age of six and grew into a talented attacker. He planned to make a life of it.

Two years ago, Brian, then 17, was among several youth cut from his local cash-strapped club. He was devastated to be sidelined and distraught at what seemed like the end of a dream, his family told TIME. They couldn’t have predicted what happened next.

Brian was raised Catholic and rarely got into trouble. He was tall and slim, with dark shaggy hair. He was proud of his mixed heritage—his mother is Brazilian—and often wore a white cross around his neck, a childhood gift from her. Shortly after being booted from the roster, a group of Moroccan teenagers invited him to play indoors. He jumped at the chance to the fill the void.

At some point over the next two months, he started hanging around their mosque. They named him Ibrahim, says his older sister, Bruna Rodriguez. Later, he converted to Islam and changed his name to Abu Qasem Brazili. His parents were stunned by the sudden transformation, but the liberal De Mulders tolerated it. “She thought it was a phase of a teenager—of puberty,” Rodriguez, 25, said of their mother, who declined requests to speak with TIME. “‘In six months it will be over,’ she hoped. But it became worse with his age.”

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He was a good student, but tensions flared at school when he told other Muslims they weren’t pious enough; he left three months before earning his diploma. By his 18th birthday, he had taken up basic Arabic and would drop to his knees five times each day to pray. “It was more philosophical back then,” his aunt, Ingrid De Mulder, says. “He was asking about things, wondering about God. It was more like learning. He was not radical at all.”

Around that time, in mid-2011, he had begun snubbing non-Muslim friends—even deleting them on Facebook—and favoring those who were more devout. One of them, a neighbor in the same building named Mohammed, introduced Brian to street sermons led by Fouad Belkacem, ringleader of the local Salafist organization called Sharia4Belgium. The group voluntarily dissolved last fall but maintains a vibrant underground network.

Belkacem, known as Abu Imran, is an Islamist of Moroccan descent, known for his radical politics. Antwerp, Belgium’s second-largest city, is celebrated for its diamonds and museums, its art and its food. But as the civil war in Syria has spiraled over 26 months, with reportedly more than 94,000 people killed and 1.5 million refugees in neighboring countries, Sunni extremist networks like Belkacem’s are thought to be radicalizing youth and pipelining them into the increasingly sectarian conflict to fight against the forces of Syrian President Bashar Assad. The Syrian regime is nominally secular and has long defended the interests of Syria’s minority Alawite sect, to which Assad belongs.

Ingrid is adamant that Belkacem indoctrinated Brian, turning him from a normal teenager with “a golden heart” to “a programmed robot” in just months. The family was so convinced he was headed for jihad that last June, Brian’s mother moved him and his younger sister to Limburg, a remote community in the northeast. It didn’t work.

August was one of the last times Ingrid would see the nephew she watched grow up. It was Ramadan, so he spent days inside, sleeping and praying. “He was explaining what he was believing, but he was still Brian like we know him: Smiling, helpful, generous,” she says. He thumbed the Koran, but mainly passages that Belkacem suggested. When he ate after sundown, she prepared fish because her town didn’t have Halal meat. Over the next six months, Belkacem’s followers would occasionally spring him from Limburg. He would swap brand name clothes for a traditional white thawb and criticize his mother and sisters for dressing too casually. When they wouldn’t convert, he said he’d “drop them like bricks.”

One night in mid-January, Brian fled for good. “I love you, but you will never see me again,” he said to his younger sister. He left his keys and mobile phone behind. The family filed a missing person’s report, but he wasn’t a minor. (Ingrid says they were notified later that Brian was a passenger on a Jan. 23 flight from Düsseldorf to Istanbul.) In late February, Rodriguez was deep down the YouTube rabbit hole, looking for any trace of Flemish fighters in footage seeping out of Syria. She came across a video that appeared to show a cadre of rebels laying down their rifles in an open field to pray. She recognized her brother.

It’s a story that differs little from the dozens of others like Brian known to have taken up arms in the war. The video was proof that he was alive, but also a startling reminder that he could meet death at any moment. Up to 6,000 foreigners are estimated to have fought in Syria since March 2011, experts say, with the majority being Sunni Arabs from Egypt, Libya, Tunisia and Saudi Arabia. Of that figure, no more than 10 percent have hailed from the West. A recent report by King’s College London supports their claim, finding that about 600 Europeans—mostly Muslims or radicalized converts from Britain, the Netherlands, France and Belgium—have made the trip. Aaron Zelin, a fellow at the Washington Institute for Near East Policy, says this is the quickest-ever mobilization of foreigners (especially Westerners) into a conflict. If the carnage continues, Syria’s foreign legion will rival that which fought in Iraq, a force that peaked at around 10,000 foreigners over six years.

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The Internet has sped the recruitment process, bringing in youth who were initially introduced to the idea by family or others in their community. “At night, they’re already online, checking things out, seeing what’s going on, and it’s a very powerful combination,” says Clint Watts, a homeland security fellow at George Washington University. That’s what the De Mulders say happened with Brian. He and others, like 18-year-old Jejoen Bontinck, also from Antwerp, were drawn into extremism through religion. Jejoen’s father recently traveled to Aleppo to find his son, but had no luck. He appears to be fighting alongside Brian with the same aim of toppling Assad and bringing awareness to the plight of civilians under siege. Critics say they’ve fallen under the spell of Jabhat al-Nusra, the jihadist outfit that has been listed as a terrorist organization by the U.S. State Department.

The duo fit the classic type of fundamentalist convert: Vulnerable and impressionable teenagers or college-aged men who became disaffected, feel marginalized, experience discrimination or have difficulties assimilating into society. Seeking some all-consuming cause, they get seduced by what David Malet, a lecturer at the University of Melbourne and author of Foreign Fighters: Transnational Identity in Civil Conflicts, describes as “an existential crisis that has to be won or an entire community is going to be wiped out.”

Right now, that cause can be found in Syria. “The longer the battle goes on, the more the zeal can build up within the foreign fighter recruitment pipeline that motivates these kids to go,” Watts says. Little is known about Brian’s travails in Syria, but Westerners like him are generally considered spies upon their arrival; those deemed trustworthy may not even be listened to or given a weapon.

In early April, the De Mulders held a press conference with Vlaams Belang, a far-right political party, to spotlight the threat of Muslim radicalization in Belgium. Two weeks later, police raided homes in Antwerp, Brussels and nearby Vilvoorde. Belkacem and five other men, who were believed to play a role in pushing teenagers into Syria, were detained. For Brian’s family, that brought little comfort. Those around him have stopped watching the evening news so they won’t see the report if (or when) he’s killed. They want him back, but others less so. European anti-terror officials have warned that fighters who wish to return pose a national security threat and that their welcome isn’t guaranteed.

The De Mulders first heard from Brian in late April. He wrote his older sister a private message on Facebook, a response to several of hers asking him to come home. Unrepentant, he claimed they weren’t his family anymore unless they converted and joined him. Later, he wrote to her again about the atrocities he had witnessed and the lack of available aid for civilians. She replied that he was “famous” as a Syriëstrijder (“Syria warrior”) and that if he really wanted to make a difference, he would do it from Belgium by talking to ministers. He hasn’t responded. (A private message sent to Brian’s account was not returned.)

On May 18, four months after Brian slipped away, the family gathered at Ingrid’s home in southern Belgium to celebrate Brian’s 20th birthday in his absence. Rodriguez says they tried to keep spirits high, laughing and eating some of Brian’s choice fare: French fries, steak and chocolate cake. They await messages from him, as well as more help to prevent others from falling into the same trap, but aren’t optimistic. “Each day, more and more guys like Brian—they are going to Syria,” she says. “It has to stop.”

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17 comments
1289004
1289004

This story is very much the same as my son.  The difference is we are from a Western culture.  Canada to be exact.  I can say that no one in the family can make someone this way.  It is something that they decide on their own.  I have been searching for other parents that are going through this same pain that I am.  Without out the other voices to connect with, it makes it very difficult emotionally to live a "normal" life day by day.  Unfortunately, in Canada, our government is avoiding the topic.  They are not willing to do anything about it at this time even though they are fully aware of the organized groups across the country recruiting our children.  It is a growing problem with many children leaving in our city alone without even considering other areas that are being affected.  We need to come together as parents to change the government's mind in how they're handling the situation, but that is difficult since our government will not allow us to know who each other is or to come together in any way.  It is one of the most painful experiences as a parent to watch this all happen without being able to do anything about it.  I am committed to changing this some way.  No other parent should have to go through what we face each day.

oreoexpo
oreoexpo

I'm not sure what's worse: the story itself, or the comments that have been left so far.

There's nothing intrinsically wrong with going to fight for the liberty of a people from a tyrant.  But let's not pretend that anyone in Syria is fighting for liberty.  Assad is fighting to keep his dictatorship.  The rebels are almost certainly fighting to establish some form of Islamist government.  Islamism is in no way compatible with liberty; no ideology that denies freedom of religion, freedom of thought, or freedom of conscience is compatible with liberty and Islamism denies all three. 

The other thing we shouldn't pretend is that Islam is A-OK.  A good faith would not make you start criticising your family for not following it (i.e. "dressing too casually).  It would not estrange you from your country or your family.  There are teenage phases, there's asking questions... and then there's estranging your family and running off to fight a war.  Let's not confuse the two.

antinazi
antinazi

Brian become a extreem man bucuse his familly are racist people, its there fold. Look at them face book pages. Bruna is a member of the faccist patij Vlaams Belang. Peace

TRV
TRV

During my grandfather's time, if he met a stranger during a journey by bus or train, got chatting, he would bring him home. The person would stay for a day or two (if time allows) and go back probably becoming a friend for life. My dad, if he met a stranger during a journey by bus or train, he would bring him home for lunch or dinner; the person would leave and probably be a good friend who one could speak to once in a while. If i happen to meet a stranger during a journey, i would not bring him home but at best, take him to lunch or dinner in a restaurant and we would part company; probably not being in touch for a year. Now, I teach my children not to talk to strangers, not take a lift from anyone, never tell anyone where we live etc. So don't we see the degradation over the generations? Do we really think we have built a better race of people? Don't we think that the society is such that one must be wary of all strangers? And what is the society if not the people? The answers are all within. One must read the scriptures to find answers but even more importantly, one must think for themselves the answers. If everyone thought like THAT one person who is doing the interpretation; then someone isn't thinking!!

TRV
TRV

Nothing wrong about a boy wanting to fight tyranny and going to Syria to fight for civilians. The question is: Why should one be converted to be a muslim to fight for Syrians? Could not a Christian fight with the same fervor? Or is it the point that a Christian could not fight the same way a muslim would? The point is about conversion and the radicalization. Nobody denounces the religion. It is the person who is at fault. Take a kid, brainwash him and put him to the frontline. If indeed, the child shall go to his maker, why does the person who taught him how to get there does not want to go himself? Why does he not get to the firing line? Or is it his excuse that he is here for this task only? It just does not add up. At which point does the chap who is converting the boys asking them to support the cause? One asks for support of the cause and then convert someone, if he is interested. One does not convert someone and then give him the cause. Go ahead, explain the cause and then ask people to go to Syria; if they want to go there. Take this bitter advice: Nobody wins in a fight. There are only degrees of losing. I have yet to see person "win" in a fight.

Ahst
Ahst

What is so radical about fighting against tyranny? Did u not hear about the Christian guy who went to Afghanistan chasing Osama bin Laden? Was he a radical or was he portrayed as a hero? Or does it depend on ones religion as to whether he is a radical or a hero? This article lacks lots of connecting dots & contains lots of generalizations & little substance. Substantiate ur claims with evidence

Ahst
Ahst

What is so radical about fighting against tyranny? Did u not hear about the Christian guy who went to Afghanistan chasing Osama bin Laden? Was he a radical or was he portrayed as a hero? Or does it depend on ones religion as to whether he is a radical or a hero?

JoeBananas
JoeBananas

Religions=SuperstitiousFoolishness! We in the Western Christian World first need to confront and reject all our own silly ancient superstitious traditions; then, we can help the Third World with their dangerous silly ancient religious traditions!! Seriously, we believe in Pregnant Virgin Mary: LoL Not very medically scientific is it!! We believe in Jesus Walk on Water?!! What in the flock usefullness is this magic trick?!! We believe in Mansions are awaiting us on GoldenStreetsHeaven!! Sounds great, yes.....but...you gotta DIE FIRST!! HAHAHAHAHA!! Wake the Flock up NOWNOWNOW!! hehehe!!

FTZMayet
FTZMayet

Utterly bias and misleading. A teenage boys longing to help civilians is nothing more than a representation of humanity and good character. There is nothing radical about it.

cjh2nd
cjh2nd

@Ahst 

take your own advice. your entire response is generalizations with little substance. hi pot, my name is kettle. guess what? we're both black

TruthIsBitter
TruthIsBitter

@FTZMayet A teenage boy trying to help humanity......by slaughtering his fellow humans? How deluded can you get, oh how so deluded....

MomizaKafeel
MomizaKafeel

Millions of teenage boys killed in WW1 and WW2, in your eyes they are heroes, right? All killing is bad, even the one done in Afghanistan of the innocent by drones

MirzaAhadBaig
MirzaAhadBaig

@rapidrelief  And he was right upon this point. Where he was not right was that killing people is masses is gonna solve any problems in world, including religion.

Hitler was also right about how bad capitalism and communism is to society. I hope you'd agree to at least half of that. 

You know what, Hitler also said that we are humans, I believe he was correct there too. And I certainly think you would agree to that. 

But does this all makes you like Hitler ? Or a Nazi ? 

I hope not.